Etiquette & Frequently Asked Questions [FAQ]
All the pictures on my website are recent and regularly updated. Them being professionally taken means I am featured under my best angles, but rest assured, they only underwent minimal edits (light, colour, and airbrushing panty marks off my very fair bum).
If seeing recent pictures, selfies, candid photos and silly memes are important to you, you can find everything you seek on my social media.
I will ask for your phone number, full name, profession and deposit. It is best practise to provide screening information in the initial contact, so that I don’t have to ask you for this information.
Sometimes I may ask for a reference or verification of your real name in the form of a business website or LinkedIn profile, especially if I am travelling to see you or visiting you in your home.
If you are not comfortable complying with a with my screening requirements, that is absolutely your prerogative, but you will have to find another provider. My safety is not negotiable.
Couples & Throuples
I would prefer for you both to reach out to me individually, and once acquainted, I’ll create a group email/tchat where we can plan our time together.
For safety reasons I will not meet cis male couples or duos unless I have met at least one of the participants individually prior, such meetings will require an additional 50% to the standard donation.
At this time I do not hold a private incall space and only provide outcalls, either to an elegant hotel (high-end chain/boutique hotels) or to your home if we have met before.
If more convenient for you I can punctually arrange for an incall location but will ask you for an extra fee.
New and nervous?
Take a deep breath and relax, I’m very focused on ensuring you feel as comfortable as possible. If we are engaging in kink or BDSM I play safe, sane and consensual and will want to discuss limits and boundaries with you before anything begins.
In order to safeguard my schedule and our time together, a deposit is required for all bookings. Our date will be considered fully confirmed in my calendar once the 20% deposit is received (+ travel expenses if we are meeting outside of Brussels). Deposits are non refundable, but can go towards a future booking in case of cancellation (cancellation must occur at least 4 days prior to our date).
Crypto (ETH, USDT, BTC) or cash.
Deposits if not paid through cryptocurrencies can be paid through vouchers or another payment method I will guide you through.
Payment at the booking
Donations must be left in an unsealed envelope placed in plain view at the beginning of our date. If meeting publicly please place the donation in a gift bag or card.
There will be no discussion of my donation and I will not take the donation directly from you.
Rates are non-negotiable, you will be blocked for haggling or asking for a discount.
Last minute bookings
I am rarely available to meet for same-day appointments, and my preference is that we plan ahead.
If you are only here for the day and don’t want to miss me, or can’t make it work any other day soon, do reach out. If I happen to be available to meet you that same day, a “rush fee” on top of my rate may apply – the fee being applied depends on how much schedule shuffling and last-minute-rushing I need to do.
If you decide to shorten the date on short notice before our booking (less than 4 days prior) or in a booking you will be expected to provide the total amount due for the initial booking.
Getting in contact
You can get in touch with me through my booking form or my contact E-mail address firstname.lastname@example.org for any questions that might not be covered on my website.
I do not respond to explicit, distasteful, or very brief initial correspondence. I will not respond to any inquiries made through my social media profiles.
Will you provide a reference?
If we’ve met in the past year and it went well don’t hesitate to use me as a reference. No need to ask permission, just pass my information along.
As I believe the details of intimate shared moments should be kept between us, I do not accept reviews.
I kindly ask that you don’t share details of our time together with others or anywhere online. If this boundary is not respected, you will be blacklisted. If you are pleased with our time together, you are nonetheless more than welcome to email me directly a tasteful and polite testimony.
Travel & FMTY
I am passport ready, vaccinated and happy to travel internationally either with you or to you (FMTY = Fly Me To You).
Coaching & Training
Whether you’d like book, podcast, toy recommendations, an introduction to new practices, guidance for your individual or partnered intimate life, to practice open and direct communication in the bedroom, to define boundaries or to assess wants and needs, I’ll be more than happy to help and support you in reaching your goals.
As an immense toy enthusiast myself, feel free to bring along your own favourites (unsealed). I can also provide some for an extra fee.
Purchasing something off my wishlist, a gift card from my favourite brands or leaving a tip after our fun time together will always be greatly appreciated.
I am happy to accompany you to a club or private event for an additional fee.
Please note that I will not take part in any intimate interactions with other guests.
Hygiene is of the utmost importance. Please be freshly showered with clean hands, short and filed nails, well-groomed, smell nice and a fresh breath.
Smoke, drink, party
I’m a light smoker, if the smell bothers you, which I completely understand, let me know and I’ll refrain from smoking on the day of our booking. I drink socially and lightly. I do not party, but am non-judgemental about it as long as you are not putting me or yourself in danger during our time together.
Stress, health, fatigue, medication can sometimes come in the way of performance, especially during a first meeting, we shouldn’t let that come in the way of having an enjoyable time together, there are plenty of other lovely ways to play.
Feel free to disclose in our initial communication any disability or health issue that could impact our meeting, the more information you give me the better I can adapt and do my research to accommodate any special needs you may have.
I take sexual health very seriously, both for my sake, and for the one of others.
I am aware that there will always be an element of risk with sex, but I mitigate it to the best of my capacities. Meaning being literate in sexual health, having stigma-free conversations about it, frequent STI screening, offering only covered services and reserving myself the right to end a booking if I notice signs of an STI flare up on your body during our meeting.
If you’re experiencing STI symptoms in the days prior to your booking, do not hesitate to inform me and we will reschedule a booking at a later point, no worries.
Taking pictures or filming
I do not allow any footage of me to be taken during our meeting.
If I notice at some point during the booking that this boundary has not been respected I will ask you to delete the footage on the spot, will end our meeting regardless of the time left and you will be blacklisted by me and my network.
The act of deliberately removing a condom during sex without your partner’s knowledge or consent is considered sexual assault and will result in the immediate termination of the booking and being blacklisted.