Screening

I will ask for your phone number, full name, profession and deposit. It is best practise to provide screening information in the initial contact, so that I don’t have to ask you for this information.

Sometimes I may ask for a reference or verification of your real name in the form of a business website or LinkedIn profile, especially if I am travelling to see you.

If you are not comfortable complying with a with my screening requirements, that is absolutely your prerogative, but you will have to find another provider. My safety is not negotiable.

Deposits

In order to safeguard my schedule and our time together, a deposit is required for all bookings. 

Our date will be considered fully confirmed in my calendar once the 30% deposit is received (+ travel expenses if we are meeting outside of Brussels). 

All deposits are non-refundable and non-transferable to another date and time..

Payment methods

Card, crypto (ETH, USDT, BTC) or cash.

Deposits if not paid by card via a virtual secured link I will provide you with, may be paid through cryptocurrencies, vouchers or gift cards.

Payment at the booking

Donations must be left in an unsealed envelope placed in plain view at the beginning of our date. If meeting publicly please place the donation in a gift bag or card.

There will be no discussion of my donation and I will not take the donation directly from you.

Pictures

All the pictures on my website are recent and regularly updated. Them being professionally taken means I am featured under my best angles, but rest assured, they only underwent minimal edits (light, colour, and airbrushing panty marks off my very fair bum).

If seeing recent pictures, selfies, candid photos and silly memes are important to you, you can find everything you seek on my social media.

Couples

I would prefer for you both to reach out to me individually, and once acquainted, I’ll create a group email/tchat where we can plan our time together.

For safety reasons I will not meet cis male couples or duos unless I have met at least one of the participants individually prior, such meetings will require an additional 50% to the standard donation.

Incalls

Incalls are available while on tour.

I do not hold a private incall space in Brussels, and only provide outcalls, either to an elegant hotel (high-end chain/boutique hotels) or to your home if we have met before. If more convenient for you I can punctually arrange for an incall location but will ask you for an extra fee.

New and nervous?

Take a deep breath and relax, I’m very focused on ensuring you feel as comfortable as possible. If we are engaging in kink or BDSM I play safe, sane and consensual and will want to discuss limits and boundaries with you before anything begins.

Haggling

Rates are non-negotiable, you will be blocked for haggling or asking for a discount.

Last minute & late booking

I am rarely available to meet for same-day appointments, and my preference is that we plan ahead.

If you are only here for the day and don’t want to miss me, or can’t make it work any other day soon, do reach out. If I happen to be available to meet you that same day, a “rush fee” on top of my rate may apply – the fee being applied depends on how much schedule shuffling and last-minute-rushing I need to do.

Dates starting after 10PM will require an additional 150€ fee.

Shortened date

If you decide to shorten the date on short notice before our booking (less than 4 days prior) or in a booking you will be expected to provide the total amount due for the initial booking.

Getting in contact

You can get in touch with me through my booking form or my contact E-mail address contact@erindupre.com for any questions that might not be covered on my website.

I do not respond to explicit, distasteful, or very brief initial correspondence. I will not respond to any inquiries made through my social media profiles.

References

Before naming me as a reference, please inform me first and give me the name of the provider that will be inquiring.

When I ask for a reference, please inform the provider you’ve mentioned beforehand that I will be contacting them in order to make the process smoother.

Testimonials

I kindly ask that you don’t share explicit or distasteful details of our time together with others or anywhere online, you are nonetheless more than welcome to leave accurate and polite reviews.

Travel & FMTY

I am passport ready, vaccinated and happy to travel internationally either with you or to you (FMTY = Fly Me To You). My rates will be determined by the location and reflect cost of visa, travel, impact of jet lag, admin labor.

Coaching & Training

Whether you’d like book, podcast, toy recommendations, an introduction to new practices, guidance for your individual or partnered intimate life, to practice open and direct communication in the bedroom, to define boundaries or to assess wants and needs, I’ll be more than happy to help and support you in reaching your goals.

Toys

As an immense toy enthusiast myself, feel free to bring along your own favourites (unsealed if to be used on me). I can also provide some toys for an extra fee. 

Gifts

Purchasing something off my wishlist, a gift card from my favourite brands or leaving a tip after our fun time together will always be greatly appreciated.

Swinging

I am happy to accompany you to a club or private event for an additional fee.

Please note that I will not take part in any intimate interactions with other guests.

Hygiene

Hygiene is of the utmost importance. Please be freshly showered with clean hands, short and filed nails, well-groomed, smell nice and a fresh breath.

Smoke, drink, party

I do not smoke and drink socially and lightly. I do not party, but am non-judgemental about it as long as you are not putting me or yourself in danger during our time together.

Performance

Stress, health, fatigue, medication can sometimes come in the way of performance, especially during a first meeting, we shouldn’t let that come in the way of having an enjoyable time together, there are plenty of other lovely ways to play.  

Sexual health

I take sexual health very seriously, both for my sake, and for the one of others.

I am aware that there will always be an element of risk with sex, but I mitigate it to the best of my capacities. Meaning being literate in sexual health, having stigma-free conversations about it, frequent STI screening, offering only covered services and reserving myself the right to end a booking if I notice signs of an STI flare up on your body during our meeting.

If you’re experiencing STI symptoms in the days prior to your booking, do not hesitate to inform me and we will reschedule a booking at a later point, no worries.

Taking pictures or filming

If I notice at some point during the booking that I am being filmed or photographed without my consent I will ask you to delete the footage on the spot, will end our meeting regardless of the time left and you will be blacklisted by me and my network.